a tip.

just a tip so you can't be a heart breaker.. a talk shitter.. a promise breaker.. a life wrecker....in terms of making a promise.... a deal or whatever that will cause that lil crack on that heart if not done,,, "You cannot say yes now and say no later, but if you say no now then you'll  have a chance to say yes later" so the logic is... say NO.. for now.. until you are real sure you can keep that promise... :)